I Often Wonder About Myself...
Thursday, February 7
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We went out yesterday and had some food at Arby's...Well, they burned my chicken so I sent it back and the sencond time I was eating...i got half way throught the sandwich and it was raw!!!!!!!!!!! So if I am in the hospital with Salmanilla then you know why! lol we also got Jazmin a new lead and some treats and they played at the courts and I had some physical therapy *OUCH!!!!!!!* and stuff! lol
After reading Annie's blog...I feel compelled to write of my own expierences with love
Four years ago I never, for one second, thought that Josh and I would be where we are today. When we first got together we were inseperable! We did so much together! *sigh* We held hands and kissed all the time and we were so happy! *sigh sigh* Despite everything we went through, his ex and mine, *sorry no names* lol It made our love that much more. He did everything for me and more. I tried to do things for him but it was hard. He took care of me better than anyone ever had. For eight months it was bliss, I thought it would never end, I thought I was in heaven! After some hard times and a move to Tampa, we again had the same love. He skipped school when I had a day off and came to see me. When he wasn't at work he was on I-4 coming to see me. After about a year and a few months...everything started to die down. At first I didn't see it and then I started to notice little differences. I then realized we were in *the zone*! Yes, the zone!!!!! A small recap...the zone signifies the comfort zone. After you're with someone for a good amount of time, you reach the zone, and things are different. At first I hated it and wished I could change him. What a fool I was! You need to accept the zone with open arms. You will never see the zone creepin' up on ya, but it'll hit ya when you least expect it. I was personally warned but was so niave! I only saw his side of the so called zone, but after a while I realized he wasn't the only one in the realationship that had changed! And it was a good thing to see it. I do , however, see that things will get easier. He is busy and so am I. We have different things to do each day and by days end we have so much to share. We both have changed.
In HS we were always together but lived apart, we didn't have a child, we didn't *have to work* we didn't have all the responsibility we have now. Now I stay home, cook, clean, raise the baby, walk the dogs, and much other unnoticalbe duties! Josh: goes to work, pays the bills, worries about the money, and does the things I can't...*getting things off the top shelf* lol so when you and your loved one hit the zone...don't fret! It won't go back to *normal* but You will see this as the new and improved norm. It gets batter and I do hope this has helped anyone in the same situation that i had been in. Annie, girlie! I love ya to pieces and hope all is well!
Love ya'll,
~Melissa~
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